First time mom? Here’s the plan. To do lists. I always planned my day ahead with to do lists. They save you time from wondering what you have forgotten to do. And with the baby and all I seem to forget things very easily. So every night before I go to sleep I write down what needs to be done the next day. Wait a minute..what happens if you forget to write something that needs to be done in your to do list? Hey, shit happens.